How about a fun game?
Yes, we made a game out of rejection! We called it “the No Game.”
The first thing we did was set the ground rules. And to do that, we had to discover how many “no’s” our people were getting from decisionmakers before they got that big “yes.” So, we all started keeping track. That was sort of fun to start with. It assumed there was an absolute, measurable limit – crazy as it seemed. After a while, we noticed that the average number of “no’s” before getting to “yes” was 7.
That’s right, 7! Not 9 or 4, but 7! So, we used 7 as our bassline. Then when our folks would complain that they had been shut down 3 or 4 times, we could say, “Relax, you’re not even to the average yet!” And when they complained that they were up to 15 no’s, we’d say, “Well, buck up! It’s right around the corner!”
But then we started comparing notes on how certain of our people got to “yes” sooner than others and we found out the 3 things they consistently did to come in under the average and win the No Game
Yes, it started as a fun game where our people could “win” by coming in under 7 “no’s.” They would proudly announce that they beat the odds. But the “game” got extremely beneficial when everyone began to pick up on the tips and use them effectively.
The average number of “no’s” didn’t really improve, but our attitude did! We began to realize that there is no “yes” or “no.” There’s only “now” and “later.” The only one who can say “no” is you …when you stop asking!
Michael Houlihan and Bonnie Harvey co-authored the New York Times bestselling business book, The Barefoot Spirit: How Hardship, Hustle, and Heart Built America’s #1 Wine Brand. The book has been selected as recommended reading in the CEO Library for CEO Forum, the C-Suite Book Club, and numerous university classes on business and entrepreneurship. It chronicles their humble beginnings from the laundry room of a rented Sonoma County farmhouse to the board room of E&J Gallo, who ultimately acquired their brand and engaged them as brand consultants. Barefoot is now the world’s largest wine brand.
Beginning with virtually no money and no wine industry experience, they employed innovative ideas to overcome obstacles, create new markets and forge strategic alliances. They pioneered Worthy Cause Marketing and performance-based compensation. They built an internationally bestselling brand and received their industry’s “Hot Brand” award for several consecutive years.
They offer their Guiding Principles for Success (GPS) to help entrepreneurs become successful. Their book, The Entrepreneurial Culture: 23 Ways To Engage and Empower Your People, helps corporations maximize the value of their human resources.
Currently they travel the world leading workshops, trainings, & keynoting at business schools, corporations, conferences. They are regular media guests and contributors to international publications and professional journals. They are C-Suite Network Advisors & Contributing Editors. Visit their popular brand building site at www.consumerbrandbuilders.com.
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